Rename --with-stdcpp → --with-libstdc++

Also improve wording a bit and fix make check in --with-libstdc++=yes.
diff --git a/configure.ac b/configure.ac
index f77e087..d8c38fe 100644
--- a/configure.ac
+++ b/configure.ac
@@ -57,11 +57,12 @@
 HB_LIBTOOL_VERSION_INFO=hb_libtool_current:hb_libtool_revision:hb_libtool_age
 AC_SUBST(HB_LIBTOOL_VERSION_INFO)
 
-AC_ARG_WITH([stdcpp],
-    [AS_HELP_STRING([--with-stdcpp],
-			[Do not try suppressing linkage to libstdcpp])],,
-	[with_stdcpp=no])
-AM_CONDITIONAL(WITHSTDCPP, [test "x$with_stdcpp" = "xyes"])
+AC_ARG_WITH([libstdc++],
+	[AS_HELP_STRING([--with-libstdc++=@<:@yes/no@:>@],
+			[Allow linking with libstdc++ @<:@default=no@:>@])],
+	[with_libstdcxx=$withval],
+	[with_libstdcxx=no])
+AM_CONDITIONAL(WITH_LIBSTDCXX, [test "x$with_libstdcxx" = "xyes"])
 
 # Documentation
 have_gtk_doc=false