Move ciphersuite selection before session resumption in TLSv1.3

This does things as per the recommendation in the TLSv1.3 spec. It also
means that the server will always choose its preferred ciphersuite.
Previously the server would only select ciphersuites compatible with the
session.

Reviewed-by: Ben Kaduk <kaduk@mit.edu>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/3623)
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