Ensure async IO works with new state machine

In the new state machine if using nbio and we get the header of a
handshake message is one record with the body in the next, with an nbio
event in the middle, then the connection was failing. This is because
s->init_num was getting reset. We should only reset it after we have
read the whole message.

RT#4394

Reviewed-by: Andy Polyakov <appro@openssl.org>