Added benchmarks for `upb_Arena_Fuse()`

I added two variants, one which is unbalanced (always fusing a single arena into the group) while the other is balanced (always fusing two groups of equal size).

Unfortunately it is difficult to benchmark `upb_Arena_Free()` separately from fuse, since the only way to get a non-zero refcount is to fuse.

Results on my machine:

```
CPU: Intel Skylake Xeon with HyperThreading (48 cores) dL1:32KB dL2:1024KB dL3:38MB
Benchmark                    Time(ns)        CPU(ns)     Iterations
-------------------------------------------------------------------
BM_ArenaFuseUnbalanced/2           52.2           52.2      1000000  38.300M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseUnbalanced/8          416            416         142315  19.243M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseUnbalanced/64        4034           4033          14306  15.868M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseUnbalanced/128       8302           8301           6837  15.420M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseBalanced/2             54.7           54.7      1000000  36.581M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseBalanced/8            425            425         100000  18.845M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseBalanced/64          4029           4029          14632  15.886M items/s
BM_ArenaFuseBalanced/128         8050           8049           7176  15.902M items/s
```
PiperOrigin-RevId: 518292073
diff --git a/benchmarks/BUILD b/benchmarks/BUILD
index 07207fc..e219c42 100644
--- a/benchmarks/BUILD
+++ b/benchmarks/BUILD
@@ -87,7 +87,9 @@
         ":benchmark_descriptor_sv_cc_proto",
         ":benchmark_descriptor_upb_proto",
         ":benchmark_descriptor_upb_proto_reflection",
+        "//:base",
         "//:descriptor_upb_proto",
+        "//:mem",
         "//:reflection",
         "@com_github_google_benchmark//:benchmark_main",
         "@com_google_absl//absl/container:flat_hash_set",